Why More Women Are Being Diagnosed with ADHD During Menopause

As a menopause coach and counsellor, I’ve worked with countless women who suddenly find themselves struggling with focus, memory, and organisation—things they managed just fine before. Many of them feel as though they’re “losing their minds.” But in reality, they are experiencing undiagnosed ADHD that menopause has unmasked.

So, why are so many women only getting diagnosed with ADHD during menopause? 

The answer lies in hormones, misdiagnosis, and the way ADHD presents in women.

Hormonal Changes & ADHD Symptoms

Estrogen plays a key role in regulating dopamine, the neurotransmitter responsible for focus, motivation, and executive function. During perimenopause, estrogen levels fluctuate and decline, which directly impacts dopamine production. Since ADHD is linked to dopamine deficiency, women with undiagnosed ADHD suddenly experience worsening brain fog, forgetfulness, impulsivity, and difficulty concentrating.

Many women tell me, “I used to juggle so much, but now I can’t even finish a simple task.” What’s happening isn’t new—it’s just that the coping mechanisms they developed over a lifetime are no longer enough to compensate for their ADHD symptoms.

Missed ADHD Diagnoses in Women

ADHD has historically been underdiagnosed in girls and women because it often looks different from the stereotypical “hyperactive boy” we associate with the disorder. Instead of being disruptive, many women develop coping strategies—like excessive planning, overworking, or perfectionism—to manage their symptoms.

Because of this, women with ADHD are often:

Labeled as anxious, forgetful, or disorganised instead of being assessed for ADHD.

Diagnosed with depression or anxiety—which may be symptoms of untreated ADHD.

Able to manage in their younger years but struggle when hormone changes remove their natural support system.

The Emotional Impact of a Late ADHD Diagnosis

For many women, an ADHD diagnosis in midlife is both a relief and a revelation. It explains years of struggles, yet it also brings grief for the time lost. However, the good news is that awareness is growing, and women are finally getting the support they deserve.

If you’re struggling with focus, memory, or organisation in menopause, you’re not alone—and you’re not “just forgetful.” It may be time to explore whether ADHD has played a role in your life all along. With the right strategies, support, and tools, you can regain clarity and thrive in this new season of life.